Relating is like being ready to be wrong about everything you assume about them.
Guests
Jessica Alonso. personal development coach, computer programmer.
Sections
00:17 intro
02:53 what is human development?
07:35 everything comes from somewhere
14:06 allow is extra
16:52 functional avoidance
19:38 saving emotions for later
22:57 safer than you thought
28:00 bubbly and grief
32:03 grief in all change
36:53 happy to let go
40:14 yes space, no space
45:51 learning your compass
52:42 no is easier
56:51 divided with common ground
62:05 miscalibrated assumptions
63:54 tech with or without contact
70:32 people will be wrong
76:05 take care of yourself
80:03 stop stopping
82:12 conclusion
If you enjoyed that, you might like my exchange with Alessandro Mendonça, who also cares about community, building social bridges, and how we relate to one other; or with Cassie Thornton, who describes the transformational power of care; or with Julia Hayden, who can help you go deeper in awareness of yourself.