yes space, no space (with Jessica Alonso)
Relating is like being ready to be wrong about everything you assume about them.
Guests
Jessica Alonso. personal development coach, computer programmer.
Sections
00:17 intro
02:53 what is human development?
07:35 everything comes from somewhere
14:06 allow is extra
16:52 functional avoidance
19:38 saving emotions for later
22:57 safer than you thought
28:00 bubbly and grief
32:03 grief in all change
36:53 happy to let go
40:14 yes space, no space
45:51 learning your compass
52:42 no is easier
56:51 divided with common ground
62:05 miscalibrated assumptions
63:54 tech with or without contact
70:32 people will be wrong
76:05 take care of yourself
80:03 stop stopping
82:12 conclusion
If you enjoyed that, you might like my exchange with Alessandro Mendonça, who also cares about community, building social bridges, and how we relate to one other; or with Cassie Thornton, who describes the transformational power of care; or with Julia Hayden, who can help you go deeper in awareness of yourself.